True happiness and fulfillment don’t come from avoiding hard truths but from facing them directly. Real growth happens when I allow myself to be uncomfortable and confront the truths I’d rather ignore. If we have people in our lives who tell us things we don’t want to hear—especially when they know we might not take it well—then we are truly lucky. These people aren’t just critics; they’re guides who help us become better, even when it’s hard to hear.
As I’ve gotten older, my view of the people around me has changed. The once-perfect figures of my childhood may start to seem less flawless. This change is a natural part of growing up, but I’ve realized that this shift is more about me than about them. Exposure to new ideas, experiences, and perspectives that comes with age and education has led me to form stronger opinions about right and wrong. I’ve started to see my parents, and others, through the lens of these opinions, which can sometimes lead to disappointment.
But I’ve come to understand that this disappointment isn’t necessarily bad. It’s a sign of my growing independence, my ability to think for myself, and my desire to create my own path. Yet, it’s also important for me to remember that life isn’t just black and white. The reasons behind my likes and dislikes, my rights and wrongs, are complex and varied. As I start to see the effects of these reasons in my life, I’m trying to maintain a sense of balance and understanding.
I’m aware that as I begin my college journey, this is a powerful step. I understand the importance of being open to new perspectives, of seeing more good than bad, and of welcoming new interests instead of clinging to old dislikes. This openness will not only make my college experience richer but will also help guide me as I navigate the complexities of life.
The journey I’m about to start will be full of opportunities to grow, learn, and evolve. I’ll meet people from all walks of life, each with their own stories, experiences, and truths. Some of these truths may challenge me, while others may inspire me, but all will contribute to my growth. As I step into my new life at USC, I’ll remember that every person I meet, every challenge I face, is a teacher. I’ll stay open, stay curious, and stay humble.
Finally, I want to say thank you to everyone who has supported me on this journey. My gratitude and humility speak volumes about who I am, and I believe they will serve me well as I embark on this exciting new chapter. My new home at USC is just the beginning of a journey that will shape who I am and who I will become. I’m ready to embrace it fully, with all its ups and downs, and I know that the bitter truths are the ones that lead to the sweetest growth.
Beautifully written Anuj! I’m so proud of you. May Thakorji’s blessings be always with you. I know your new journey will definitely help you grow in all aspects of life.
Quite matured and thoughtful dear Anuj. Appreciable
Anuj,
Best of luck as you start your college journey at USC! You are more than prepared for this and are equipped to face the changes and tackle the challenges! Fight on!
Not to accept own weaknesses is the first weakness. How do you overcome that?